remove cached destination for a destination if request fails

this can help if users change their well-known or such and we don't want
to keep on hitting the old destination.

from https://gitlab.com/Aranjedeath/conduit/-/commit/11357d1f1af27b0cbd06ee2d8431bd965bc6d95e

Co-authored-by: Jacob Taylor <jacob@explodie.org>
Signed-off-by: strawberry <strawberry@puppygock.gay>

src/api/server_server.rs

@@ -308,6 +308,18 @@ where
                 })
             } else {
                 debug!("Returning error from {destination}");
+
+                // remove potentially dead destinations from our cache that may be from modified well-knowns
+                if !write_destination_to_cache {
+                    info!("Evicting {destination} from our true destination cache due to failed request.");
+                    services()
+                        .globals
+                        .actual_destination_cache
+                        .write()
+                        .unwrap()
+                        .remove(destination);
+                }
+
                 Err(Error::FederationError(
                     destination.to_owned(),
                     RumaError::from_http_response(http_response),